Breakups are a tough reality to face, but the good news is that not all hope is lost. So, if you’re looking to win your ex back, which I assume you are since you’re reading this article, then it’s time to learn how to reverse roles to make your ex chase you.
Even if your ex is refusing to talk to you or is still bitter about how the relationship ended, you can make him or her come crawling back, simply by shifting the power from them to you.
The first thing you’re going to need to do is remove yourself from your ex’s life. Relationship Coach Brad Browning calls this the “disappearing act,” and the point behind it is to show your ex that you don’t need him/her in your life by embracing the No Contact period. When done correctly this will surprise your ex, and even more importantly, it will make him or her miss you.
Though you’ll probably be tempted to reach out to your ex at this time, don’t. Showing them that you’re happily moving on is key to making him or her want you back. In fact, as time passes your ex will miss you more and more, and will eventually even question the breakup.
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Once you have put the No Contact period into action, the next thing you’ll want to do to make your ex chase you is to remove their safety net. In other words, remove any possibility of them thinking that you’ll be there if they start to regret the breakup. In other words, don’t let them think that you’ll be their backup plan should single life not be so swell.
To do this you must make it clear to your ex that you won’t be their friend and that they must choose between being in a romantic relationship with you, or not having you in their life at all. They can’t have their cake and eat it too!
The problem with staying friends with your ex is that it gives them the “safety net” of knowing you’re still around. It also allows them to adjust to single life with you by their side, which doesn’t give him or her the chance to miss you, which is crucial for winning your ex back. This can be a tough tactic, but it’s extremely powerful when it comes to reversing roles.
Lastly, the third step for making your ex chase you is to simply sit back and wait for it to happen. Yes, patience is key here.
That said, once you manage to properly put steps one and two into action (cut off contact and show your ex you won’t be their backup plan), it shouldn’t be long before your ex comes running back to you. Why? Because they will be missing you and worrying that they’re losing you for good. Once this fear sets in they’ll start making an effort to spend time with you again.
That said, it’s important that you don’t give in too quickly here. If you’re willing to drop what you’re doing the second your ex comes calling then there won’t be much of a chase. This doesn’t mean that you should turn your ex down if they ask you to meet up (after all, that’s important for winning them back), but rather don’t seem too eager or confess how much you still miss and love him or her. Instead it’s important that you play it cool to keep the power in your hands.
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