You and your partner broke up, and you want to win him or her back. The truth is, it doesn’t matter why you broke up or if you’re the only one who wants to fix things, as long as you’re willing to put the work in, it is possible to win your ex back.
One of the first things to realize is that there are many wrong ways to go about winning your ex back. Some are obvious, others not. For example, so many people think that keeping in contact with their ex after the breakup is key to winning them back. Wrong! In fact, communicating with your ex after a breakup usually does more harm than good.
So, what do you do? When I was in your shoes and working on winning my ex back I used a concept that relationship expert Brad Browning calls the No Contact rule. The idea behind this is to cut off communication with your ex for at least a month. It sounds strange, but by removing yourself from your ex’s life it gives them the chance to miss you and even forget about the reasons why you broke up. Sticking around your ex not only helps him or her adjust to single life, but it also makes you look desperate and pathetic – neither of which are going to help you win them back.
Of course when it comes to winning back your ex there’s a lot more involved than simply cutting off communication. These tips you will learn in the articles I have collected to share with you, and in the programs that I so highly recommend. Since you can’t expect to learn how to win your ex back by simply reading amateur articles, you’re going to need to lean on the advice of professionals who have helped countless couples save their relationships. You can try counselling, but since you and your partner have already broken up it won’t have as big an effect on your ex. In other words, the chances of it helping you win your ex back are slim.
What I recommend you do from here is sign up for my free seven part email series. These emails contain articles that I have personally used and selected, and each includes great tips for winning your ex back. I can say that I completely stand behind them as they helped me win my own ex (now boyfriend) back.
As I have said many times on this blog, bad advice is worse than no advice so save yourself time and avoid damaging your chances by using the advice I have put together for you in my email package.
Good luck!
– Angela