Wanting to win your ex back is one thing, but knowing if he or she is willing to make it work, well that’s a whole other story…
Knowing if your ex will take you back can give you a huge advantage when it comes to mending your relationship. As you can imagine, trying to get back with someone who has absolute zero desire to do so will be much tricker than wooing someone who is on the fence about making it work between the two of you.
So then, how can you tell whether or not your ex will take you back? Here are three telltale signs.
Your ex still talks to you.
There are few things harder than trying to win back an ex who won’t even speak to you. That said, if he or she is reaching out to you it’s important that you stick with the No Contact rule for about a month before opening up communication lines. Sure, it can be tough not to get ahead of yourself, especially if you’re trying to win him or her back, but believe me, keeping communication to a minimum is your best bet after a breakup. (I won’t get into details here, but for more information on why the No Contact period works go to www.exbacklikeme.com/video and watch the free presentation).
Simply put, if your ex is making an effort to talk to you then the future of your relationship is looking pretty good.
Your ex wants to spend time with you.
If your ex is asking you to hang out then it’s a pretty solid sign that he or she will talk you back. That said, if you’re looking to win your ex back then it’s extremely important to avoid falling into the friend-zone. If you do, it can be much harder to restore your relationship.
However, if he or she is making an effort to see you, or extending invites to include you in plans, then it’s pretty certain that your ex will take you back… if you play your cards right.
Your ex talks about you to mutual friends.
If you’ve been on your ex’s mind then there’s a good chance that your mutual friends will hear about it. Whether he/she has asked how you’ve been, or has commented on what you’ve been up to, simply talking about you to others is a positive sign that your ex will take you back — maybe not right away, but they’re at least considering it.
Of course it’s important to note that what your ex says about you plays a big factor here. For example, if your ex is complaining about you, or crying about how you broke their heart, then this sign may not apply in those situations. But, if you hear that they’ve been subtly asking about you, then that’s a sign that you’ve still got a shot!
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Good luck!
– Angela